In Ukraine, the 4th Easter Since the War Started – “Everything is fine with us … But … Because the heaviness is on the heart that the war continues and people are dying. I am very afraid of night attacks on Kyiv. It’s really scary, because you don’t know if we’ll live to see the morning.” – В Україні 4-й Великдень від початку війни – “У нас все добре… Але… Бо тяжкість на серці, що війна триває і гинуть люди. Я дуже боюся нічних атак на Київ. Це дуже страшно, тому що ти не знаєш, чи доживемо ми до ранку».

May 10, 2025 | Moments of Seeing & Occasional Pieces, Ukraine — Friends, the War, & Hope

The correspondence of this post begins with my message on Good Friday, April 18, 2025, to my close friend Maxim, and his wife, Elena, in Ukraine, and ends two weeks later on May 1.

I began the e-mail conversation with my concerns about the increasing missile and drone attacks against Ukraine and Kyiv, and my prayers for their safety as the Russian assault against Ukraine was reaching new heights of deadly violence.

I asked them to pray for the US and mentioned the turmoil we were experiencing as a nation, and the demonstrations constantly taking place nationwide.  I asked them to send me photos of their service on Easter Sunday knowing I would use them in a post about Easter in Ukraine – the fourth Easter in Ukraine since the war started.

The ensuing email conversation between us then unfolds with discussions of the difficult issues within both countries, the sharing of prayer requests and encouragements to pray, my request for prayers for a very dear friend here in the US who was experiencing sudden medical issues, the receipt of Easter Sunday photos from Ukraine, and Elena’s thoughts upon the ever-continuing war.

Within the email discussions, this post illustrates how some of my posts about Ukraine have come about with Elena’s help – a behind the scenes look so to speak – and the amount of time and work it takes me to carefully compose a posting that meets my own standards of writing and that appeals to and hopefully satisfies my readers’ expectations of honest content and careful handling of sensitive material within every sentence. 

This post also shows how life – growth, apprehension and fears, hope, and sickness and sorry – the essence of what I write – goes on all round us all the time and intertwines into every facet of my life, eventually in due time surfacing into what I write decades or years later, or as “breaking news”, for everything builds upon everything else – sharpening, broadening, highlighting, or soothing – the understandings, the pain, the blessings and love received, and just the facts and acceptance of our muddled and messy lives and its continuing opportunities and challenges.  For life happens all the time, and we must work to always be open to it and to live in the now, so that we miss nothing of the fulness of life’s everyday once in a lifetime opportunities – for in truth it is our own lifetime we do not want to miss.

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Dear Maxim & Elena,

I am constantly thinking and praying for you and Alexei and your two daughters and son-in-law and his family in Germany, and of course, our other friends in Ukraine.

 I follow the news about Ukraine, and it appears that an even more dangerous phase of the war has begun, and I pray for the Lord’s hand, protection, and mercy upon you all.

Please continue to pray for the US as our country is in great turmoil and distress with all the attacks upon our government and justice system …

There are demonstrations every day now all over the country against the president’s policies and actions. Tomorrow is the second big nationwide demonstration and rally day, with the theme of tomorrow’s demonstration being “No Kings!” I took part in the first nationwide protest day on April 5th, and I will also participate tomorrow on April 19.

I ask the Lord to keep my heart and mind upon Him during the day, so I can pray always, and I can continue to do the good works the Lord has set before me. I trust in the Lord, I know He hears and answers my prayers, and that His presence and love are always upon me. I find great comfort and the peace of God which surpasses understanding in prayer bringing the issues and events before God which are truly troubling to me, knowing, as Psalm 116:1-2 says, that He hears my voice.

Please send me some lines on how you are doing and a few photos from your Resurrection Sunday church. This evening, we attended the Good Friday service online with the church we attend in Missouri. The service focused on the great love of God, demonstrated by Christ’s love for us demonstrated in His outstretched arms. We now look forward to Easter and the Resurrection and the hope and promises the Resurrection brings to all of us.

 May your celebration of the resurrection be a great comfort and source of strength among you all.

 With great love and affection, and concern and much prayer, Chris.

 Dear Chris!! Thank you very much for your care and prayers!!

Yes, we are also constantly watching the development of events in your country. We are very sorry that in your country there is such a president who is not pious and brings a lot of suffering to the country. But we see in the Bible that there were different kings and God used them for his great purposes. Trump is just a cog in the hands of the Great Creator. And this cog will find a place in history. He does not decide anything. It’s just that the Lord allowed him to do it for a short time.

Therefore, be of good courage, be strong. May the Lord bless you.

Find something to thank the Lord for in these difficult times It helps me.

With love and good wishes Elena❤️

The opening feature photo, the photo below, and the last two photos at the end of this post, are the Easter Sunday photos I received from Elena.

For the opening featured photo, I chose the photo of the front of the church on Easter Sunday before their morning service, as it possessed an artistic touch I admired. It portrayed the peace of the Easter morning as women arrived outside the church – the little girl with the woman on the right providing a spot of color with her pink tutu-like dress and a childhood soft light-blue sweater.

And on a closer look, one sees the baby carriage festooned with an arc of brightly colored flowers and other objects designed to attract the eyes and inquisitive fingers of infants and very young children – exhibiting the very human, and the very loving impulse of parents world-wide to give good gifts to their children.

But in Ukraine, all such gifts purchased and lovingly given to children, are provided under the dark cloud of the war upon Ukraine – illustrating a rising and necessary resilience and hope within parents, those attending the Easter service, and within the people of Ukraine as a whole. For within a war, because of uncertainties and possible shortages, there seems to arise a national heightened awareness that children must be cared and provided for and properly fed.

In our understanding of war, we should never lose sight of the many stresses that war brings upon children and families. For if we do, we will understand nothing is this world rightly, and we will only bring the judgement of God upon us.

And the photo as a whole, framed by sprays of the blooming trees, is a fitting reminder and symbol of Easter, of the new exuberant life bursting forth in spring, and the new life available for us through Christ rising forth from death and the tomb through His resurrection.

I love the photo right below – perhaps a traditional decorated bread baked for Easter, being offered as part of the morning meal at the church. I am always interested in traditional baked goods and the photo immediately brought to my memory the hot cross buns my mother would always make for Easter – a doughy bun with colored candied citron within and topped with a wonderful thick white sugar glaze made from confectioner’s sugar poured in a cross-shape on each bun.

Absolutely wonderful buns – their image I can always conjure in my mind as I used to gaze with longing upon them on Easter, waiting for the moment I could gobble one down, with a hot cup of English tea by my side.  A wonderful memory from my youth. The bread of the photo a bright cheery note for Easter morning in Ukraine.

Some photos from today

Maxim, Elena,

Elena, thank you so much for these photos, exactly what I needed/wanted.

Could you also send me a photo of Maxim playing in the orchestra and also one of all the people in the church, even if from just the back looking toward the front. 

Would you also all to pray for me and for my very closest friend, Ron, who is a little older than me, who has struggled with Parkinson’s disease for a few years but who just a week ago suddenly turned worse and is now uncommunicative and unresponsive and is dying.  He lives in … and we talked every Sunday evening.  I met him in college.  I missed talking to him last Sunday because we were in New York for my grandson’s seventh birthday, so now today I am emailing a message to him through his wife who will read it to him.  He was declining slowly, but this sudden absolute decline was so unexpected.  …

Thank you so much.

Chris

Maxim, Elena,

Elena, thank you very much for your very encouraging words. These are very trying times in the US, and they are constantly getting worse. Today I had my international Sunday sermon discussion and prayer group zoom, and much of the discussion was how we as Christians are to think, pray, and ask the Lord to keep our hearts upon him as we still take the actions that we can to resist the utter destruction of our government. Please continue to pray for The US and Canada which is especially coming under more and more pressure. In our prayer group we do have Canadians, and it is nice and helpful having the strong spiritual support and prayer for each other among us.

Also, thank you for praying for my friend Ron. This past Friday on April 25, he died peacefully at home. I will miss him greatly, as we were soulmates and we both loved books and reading and history, and our conversations on Sunday were always meaningful and encouraging to each other and we discussed often how we are to live our lives as Christians within the difficult times we are in.  He was a sensitive man, and I think all the chaos and evil that has surrounded us for so long also took a physical toll on him.

I have also been praying for all of you in Ukraine and for Ukraine as the betrayal of Ukraine by our government has just been exposed more and more for what it really is. The majority of Americans support Ukraine, …

So, I have all the photos that I need for my next posting about Ukraine.  I managed to take screenshots from the video of your Easter service that you sent me. But please send me your thoughts and the thoughts of others of how you are and information on how life is really for all of you as this is what is making what I write about Ukraine more effective in reaching the audience that I have for my website.

I will try to send you some photos from my phone of the demonstrations/rallies that I have taken part in.

Chris

Maxim, my friend, is on stage on the left playing what I think are electronic drums, and the lead singer in the middle is Ruslan, who has also stayed with us for a number of years in the past, who is also preaching in the second screenshot.

The second screenshot also shows the church congregation from the back looking towards the front where Ruslan is preaching. The only other person I can recognize is the small boy in the front row on the left side with the dark hair. I believe he is a nephew of Maxim, and he and his sister show up in the photo of the children’s choir in the ending Prologue section of this post.

In April 2022, in the beginning of the war, during the first Easter of the war, church members were still working on the building fixing it up and remodeling it and, in my Ukraine posting of April 16, 2022, I show the church still in the remodeling stage.

And from the photos of this post, both the outside and inside of the church now seems very new with unpretentious, modern, and simple clean lines.

These two photos are also comforting to me as I see my friends in the congregation enjoying what looks like a very “usual” Easter service, though of course all of this is in the shadow of the war and the seemingly endless drones and missiles hitting Kyiv. It also illustrates how Elena in the Ukrainian posting of February 19, 2025, describes how life has to go on regardless of the situation.

And I take great encouragement from seeing my fellow believers worshiping Jesus on Easter, the celebration of His resurrection, regardless of the situation and the ever-present potential of drone or missile strikes. This year is the fourth Easter since Russia invaded Ukraine in 2022, and their faith is still vibrant and strong and a living testimony not only to their fellow Ukrainians, but also to many of us around the entire globe where His name and resurrection are proclaimed.

Chris, thank you for the demonstrative photos!!

I’m so sorry for Ron… he rested in eternal peace. He’s already resting there…, and we’re still related to the same spirit here. I believe you’ll meet him.

Everything is fine with us: there are all goods in stores, there are all medicines in pharmacies, all institutions are working. But this is not the main thing… Because the heaviness is on the heart that the war continues and people are dying. I am very afraid of night attacks on Kyiv. It’s really scary, because you don’t know if we’ll live to see the morning. And this is every day. If not Kyiv, then other cities. There are victims every day. Houses are destroyed every day. But by the grace of the Lord, we are still living.

Prayer needs:

– Ending the war

– so that brothers from churches are not taken into the army

– so that there is peace and trust in the Lord.

 Дякую ❤️

This photo is of the children singing on Easter Sunday. With photos, I tend to focus on children, and the boy and girl in the front row, second and third from the right, are, I believe, Maxim and Elena’s nephew and niece in the Ukrainian post of December 12, 2024, in which I write of Maxim and Elena’s family celebrating the American holiday of Thanksgiving. And in the two photos of that posting, the boy is always with his mother, smiling in one photo and more thoughtful in the second, and the girl is smiling in both, happy being held in the arms of her father. I like the haircut of the nephew – precise and edgy, and sharp looking!

And I am also drawn to persons who appear different than the others around them and whose faces portray or convey emotions upon their face that I understand or identify with. In this photo, the boy on the far right in what I assume is a traditional Ukrainian festive shirt, reminds me of the boy in my posting of February 15, 2025, of whom I wrote, “I was drawn to the sadness upon the face of the boy and saw myself in him.” For the boy in this photo has an expression of apprehension, and he is not looking in the same direction as the other children but off to the side, as if seeing and experiencing something other than just being on stage singing, something that produces fear and perhaps a difficulty in facing whatever it is he sees and senses within.

For with the war in Ukraine, and with war in general, we tend to focus on physical injuries and fatalities, and we forget that inner scars and fears and anxieties can grip and worm deeply to permanently reside within people – including vulnerable children. For these traumas can arise because of parental or other familial separation due to military service or because of the violence and destruction they see and the deaths they may experience or be aware of – which may include other children or persons close to them. And all these things may produce lasting harmful effects within them, that may last as traumas they will need to deal with, or not deal with, perhaps throughout their remaining lives.

And it is these traumas of the mind and soul of others that are easily minimized and swept aside, or forgotten, or not even thought of, by those who wage war and those who support these evils, and those who strive to enrich themselves through whatever opportunities arise because of the war or which are carefully manufactured, forgetting that the trauma to others, to children, will certainly be judged.

For it is the children that Jesus took in his arms and blessed and said that the Kingdom of God belongs to them. And just as physical harm is an attack upon those created in the image and likeness of God, so is the inner trauma, which is easily forgotten and minimized, but which is also a deep and evil attack upon the image and likeness of God within others, and one which is always, whether now or at a time in the future, subject to the awful judgement of God. There is no fear of God within those who so act.

And this last photo is of Alexei, Maxim and Elena’s son, who may be helping to serve coffee during Easter morning, with the congregation using all the bottles of flavoring – cherry, maple, amaretto, Baileys, and caramel – to flavor and sweeten their coffee for a delicious, intensely flavored coffee treat. What a nice opening for Easter Sunday!

And yet Alexis’ face also portrays deeper thoughts, deeper issues stemming from the war now in its 4th year. For in the same Ukrainian post of December 12, 2024, in which the nephew and niece also appear, I also write of the expression on Alexis’ face – “Yet within the two photos of this posting, my mind and heart focus are on Alexei … and the expression upon his face in one photo and the fact that he stays half hidden in the other.  For it is not as simple as saying he seems unhappy, for that is not it at all, but rather he appears to feel and exist in a hollowness, an emptiness. For he is a young man at the age where he would normally be experiencing a new life with new beginnings, but rather his life, his existence, is defined and confined by a war not of his or his nation’s choosing, that continues on and on getting worse with every year with more and more destructive missiles.”

I admire and pray for Alexei, who, though always subject to a call to military service, and always dealing within the difficult circumstances the war has imposed upon him, and the inner struggles he has to engage with, still serves others and works to move through his life with the energy and strength that God provides.

And just as I wrote of the boy in the traditional Ukrainian shirt, again it is a not enough to think of the casualties of war as only those who are physically injured, but it also includes all people experiencing war, harm, and oppression, for we are all created in the image and likeness of God, and these struggles, like all deep traumas, are those things which will remain with us for our lives.

That is why we are all broken and damaged, and why we who are Christ’s must also always pray for each other and for all those within our world suffering unrelieved poverty, oppression, and the cruelties of war and deprivation. For all are our neighbors, for whom we also must do whatever to our capacity and opportunity we can, to make known their plight, alleviate their needs, and protect and save their lives.

I think back to Elena’s advice in her email of April 19, where she said to me, “Therefore, be of good courage, be strong. May the Lord bless you. Find something to thank the Lord for in these difficult times It helps me.”

And because of her encouraging words and through the work of the Holy Spirit within me, I thank the Lord for the presence of my Ukrainian friends in my life and their example of courage and living out the gospel in difficult times. For they encourage me to keep doing all I can to fulfill the two great commandments of loving God with my whole heart and mind and soul and strength, and loving my neighbor as myself, and doing all I can to extend grace, and help, and assistance, and protection towards those oppressed and treated with contempt and cruelty. And doing all of this is essentially the way in which we fully love God.

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